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Coaching and Guidance

A little back story.

Over the last 5 years I have been on a journey.
I am not the same person. 
I had a motorbike accident, which lead to my first surgery and my first 'dark night of the Soul' as I recovered, unable to distract myself with work, I met myself in a very dark place. 

My life came crashing down all around me, I couldn't handle it anymore, I had a total breakdown.

I had taken on too much and my nervous system was in a constant state of anxiety, except for when I was smoking cannabis, which became an addiction.

At some point, I realised that my mental health was in need of attention.
I was exposed to many aspects of my life that needed to change.
Depressed, anxious and having panic attacks almost every day, I embarked on a journey to heal myself.
The journey has taken me into realms of bliss and chasms of chaos that I could have never imagined possible.

My ego was being torn apart. I was eating so much humble pie I was getting sick.
Death, rebirth.
Death, rebirth.

Rinse, repeat cycle.
I was lost out at sea, no one around me seemed to understand what I was going through.
The storms kept coming, and so I had to learn to sail.

Truth is, the storms do keep coming, that's part of life. 

The cycles of transformation are ongoing and so we learn to dance in the rain and make beautiful art from a broken heart. We learn that with each cracking open, we become more of who we truly are, liberated from the ego's illusions of self, the darkness has its teachings.

I now look back at that chapter of chaos with Love, I know and trust it all had to unfold in the exact way it did.

There's a certain type of peace that comes from being in love with your past, rather than resentment.

In my experience, not many people have the capacity to understand what it really means to go through a spiritual awakening and healing journey.

Suddenly we can find ourselves alone, even if people are close by, you aren't on the same wavelength anymore, you're asking big questions now which are met with 'you've lost it mate' trust me... I know this one well.

It can be incredibly lonely to wake up. It's painful, which is why not many people do it until they suffer enough to change, like me! I had to get to the point of romanticising suicide and daily panic attacks before my stubborn ego mind finally admitted...

 

'I have no f**king clue who I am or what I'm doing and I'm scared for my life. I'm DONE.'

Not many people come to a point in their lives where they genuinely can't go on without some answers to some very big questions like; Who am I? and What is the meaning of my life? Why all this pain, suffering and confusion? 

I had everything I'd been taught to want and more, and still I was empty.

Most people are not ready to walk the path of seeking answers these questions that are essentially impossible to answer!

The Souls who choose this path know deep down that they are here for more, and will inevitably discover a certain state of peace that makes it all make sense.

This inner peace comes from knowing ourselves, loving ourselves, forgiving ourselves, healing ourselves with the help of others who have done the same.

In my experience this path leads to deeper connection with self and others, more meaning, more love, more peace, more beauty, less conflict, as well as the ever present joy of swimming deep in the mystery of life.

I was ready to make some serious changes.

You may have witnessed some of them as I shared my journey online, much to the dismay of many followers who were not ready at all to ask the kind questions I was presenting to them! 

My whole body was screaming at me to let go of all that was meaningless.

I had a motorbike accident which was the catalyst for all of this change.
I ended my 6 year relationship.
I went deep into depression. 
I stopped working.
I pushed everyone away because I was convinced that I was doing everyone a favour, that I was 'toxic'.
I gripped onto any kind of joy I could. 
I had no idea what was coming, how could I have?

I wanted nothing more than to discover my own inner peace, and the meaning of life and of my own existence, I needed answers otherwise it was going to be game over.

Little did I know that I was actually only just stepping into the arena... 

Needless to say, I have learnt a lot on this path so far and I continue to dive deeper in to my own cycles of transformation, self mastery, healing and spiritual growth.

Now, in 2022 I am in many ways transformed, from the inside out.
My nervous system, including the conductor (my mind) are predominantly peaceful and calm.
As my inner world has transformed, so has my outer world. 

This has involved going into my own mind, to bring into the light that which was hidden, to get to the root of the subconscious stories playing out in my life.

I began to notice the patterns, not only in my romantic relationships but also my friendships, and my own personal relationship to myself, nature and life!

As a highly sensitive empath I've also had to really focus on developing my own 'sense of self' from the inside out, to get to know who I really am not through other people but from the inside. 

To learn about energy and the power of the mind has been incredibly life changing for me.

Emotions are energy in motion. By getting to know myself I learned how to create boundaries so that I have my own experiences of life without other people's energy having control over me.

I'm also a lot less concerned with what other people think of me! Total game changer for my inner peace.

This path has been most powerful for me in getting to know who I am, what my values are, what my heart truly desires and how I can participate in my life with more purpose.

Part of the reason people choose this path is because they realise modern life is essentially devoid of meaning.

It gets exhausting to have to pretend all this superficial stuff is meaningful.
Once we have had enough, we give ourselves permission to search for more.


This search brought me to the realisation that 'meaningful' is a perspective and my perspective was being shaped by beliefs that weren't always true. And so the search more meaning takes us inwards.

Perhaps as you read this you are resonating with what I'm sharing, perhaps you are moving through huge shifts and transitions in your own transformational journey. You are not alone.

I know, from my own experience that this path of healing, awakening, inner work and True Self-discovery can be overwhelming, confusing and often isolating. All of this chaos is needed. 

The one lesson I do wish I had learned sooner, was to ask for support.
I could've really benefitted from asking for help earlier on my journey.


My life, my higher-self and my heart have guided me here, to be offering support in this way.
And I'm experiencing a level of peace and contentment like never before, I love this work.

Trust that everything is unfolding in perfection.
You are not alone in your journey. 

 

I am offering support with the following:

- Finding direction, purpose and meaning.
- Navigating spiritual awakening.
- Personal transformation.
- Healing journey guidance.
- Masculine Evolution (for men)
- Emotional intelligence and alchemy.
- Quantum shifting through timelines.

If you feel called to connect with me I am available for 1:1 guidance calls on Zoom, to help you wherever you might find yourself on your journey.

I would love to hear your story and share any insights that I've gained on my path that could create clarity and direction in effectively navigating your remarkable journey.

Fill our the form below for more information about my offerings and I'll get back to you ASAP.
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Peace and harmony 
Ben ♥️

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